Regarding Women | summer 2008

Taming Toddler Tantrums

The best way to deal with temper tantrums is to head them off before they start. Try these tips:

  • Offer choices about minor things, such as what type of juice they want, to give toddlers a sense of control.
  • Distract frustrated children with toys or other activities.
  • Don’t shop or try to squeeze in another errand when your toddler is tired.
  • Don’t reinforce the idea that tantrums work by giving in to a request once a tantrum has started. Stay calm and wait for your child to relax.